Growing up, my dad would say that no matter what he would
always love my mom. At the altar, many people will say the same thing.
Unfortunately, America’s divorce rate is a sign that commitment through thick
and thin is increasingly rare.
Most people would agree that in some situations, like
infidelity, it is acceptable to seek a divorce. Simply being tired of being
with the other person or no longer “feeling” in love, however, are not
legitimate reasons. People like to believe that every problem in life has a
quick fix. If a pipe is leaking, use duct tape. Or if a vase breaks, grab the
super glue. But marriage is neither a pipe nor a vase, as divorce is certainly
not duct tape or super glue. Notice that even the easy fix solutions mentioned
above were about holding things together, not pulling them apart permanently.
About 40-50%
of marriages will end in divorce. This does not reflect a moral
understanding of marriage as it was intended to be. In the Bible, the Church is
called the bride of Christ. Certainly Christ is hurt by His bride’s failure to
keep his commandments, but His love is unwavering.
Shouldn’t our marriages imitate that?
Just like any other couple, my parents had their arguments.
I can remember the steam coming out of their ears when they were upset at each
other, but arguments would always end with the same “I love you.” They are now
approaching their 33rd wedding anniversary, and I truly believe that
their commitment to each other even in the hard times got them there.
Til’ death do us part isn’t just an idea; it’s a choice.
Make your choice before you stand up in front of the church or forever hold
your peace.
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